Dear Mom

February 27, 2026

Dear Mom, 

Today I celebrate my 40th birthday. I am grateful to have known you for 39 years of my life. As I reflect about our relationship and who you were to me, I miss you so much. You've always said, thaum koj muaj menyuam koj maam le paub. Your words ring true. Since the day I became a mother, I understood the cost of motherhood—and that was only the beginning. 

I am grateful that my children had the privilege of meeting you. I know Aria reminded you so much of me when I was her age—loud and obnoxious. You had so much joy being around Melody. Mom, you would've especially loved her even more, the one you named. Thank you.

I am grateful for the life that you sacrificed for me, for all of your children, especially for dad— for our sake. 

You were a stubborn woman. You worried a lot because you cared deeply. You were the sweetest friend and an honest one. You had a beautiful, contagious laughter. I miss your smile. 

I can't believe that it's already been 9 months since you passed—and it's only been 9 months! My heart aches. I still have your photo on my phone wallpaper. Sometimes Melody and Michael would tell me that they miss you, too. 

I can't believe I have to live the rest of my birthdays and years without you, Mom. When I think about you, there is nothing that could ever fill the hole that you left in my heart. 

Today I especially remember you. Thank you for carrying me and delivering me into this world. I love you forever, Mom.